Soooo...

I have been with my bf for 4-5 years now I was on the nova ring the first year. After that we have been trying and nothing. I have an irregular period. I know it sounds dumb but I didn't want to go to the doctor in fear of being told I can't have kids or something is wrong. But I have recently taking the steps to wait for my insurance cards and go to the doctor to get a check up. So I'm proud of myself! Is there anything anyone has taken to help conceive that has worked?!