Feeling embarrassed after sex with husband normal or not normal ?

Question

Embarrassed after me and my husband have se si enjoy a lot but after I feel embarrassed over him seeing me naked and after everything we do I don’t know why need advice? I don’t know if the reason is that I got molested as a 7 year old girl after I give my husband a blow job I feel like I can’t even look at him. I love him but I don’t know why I feel like this I sometimes just stay quiet after sex even Dow I enjoyed it and orgasm. I was molested by my two cousins one 13 the other 17

Answer

It’s not normal for normal people who don’t have a traumatic past but since that happened to you as a child it makes sense.. (most people I know that something happened to as a child are either very promiscuous or really timid/shy) I would recommend counseling so you can work through those issues and hopefully work through those feelings

Answer

It is 100% normal considering what happened to you. It’s hard to detach from the shame around sexual activity now as an adult despite the fact that you’re doing it with your loving husband. 
I’d recommend talking to your husband about it if you’re comfortable enough to reveal it to him. 
I’d also recommend talking to a therapist that specializes in childhood sexual abuse/trauma. 
With the right help I believe you’ll be able to leave the weight of the shame behind and be more comfortable having sex now as an adult. 
You did not deserve what happened to you when you were little. That was not your fault whatsoever. Sending you virtual hugs 💛

Feeling embarrassed after sex with husband normal or not normal ?

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