Boyfriend advice please

Background info:

1 year together

We live together

No kids

I’m 24 he’s 26

I’m his first long/serious relationship so love is still new for him

I keep our sex life interesting I buy outfits I get things to lick off of him I’ve bought sex games etc I go all out for him

If I say I don’t feel valued or appreciated he’ll say I’m in my feelings he’s already said this is a normal thing for men to want

Yesterday...

So my boyfriend keeps saying he wants two wife’s and I honestly don’t agree with that and at first I thought he was joking but at this point he’s brought it up a few times and he knows my opinion so idk why he keeps talking about it I said can I have a second husband and he’s like no that’s weird that’s gay that doesn’t make sense and I’m like how it’s the same as you wanting a second wife she’s for you not me I’m not gonna fuck her I can clean I can cook I can handle myself so why is she there? What would I need her for? He couldnt say shit And so then this topic came up

Today....

He asked how I feel about threesomes and I said that’s not me I don’t judge those who like it but I have no interest in females so having her there would be pointless maybe two guys and he’s like no that’s also gay so I said what would she be doing he said he can be fucking me while playing with her and vice versa and all this extra shit and I’m just like -_- I understand every man thinks about having two females in bed but again that’s not me and he says well that way I won’t have to get a second wife and you won’t have to share me we can get rid of her after 🤨 like she’s a toy or some shit I really just don’t feel like I’m enough for him I cook I clean all this shit in this apartment is mine I’m always surprising him with cute notes and little gifts that shows I thought about him I’m very freaky he gets it whenever he wants even when I don’t want to and even when he wakes me up out my sleep so it’s not like he’s being neglected Idk how to feel or what to do because at this point I don’t feel valued I don’t feel like I’m enough what would you say or do if this was your boyfriend and please no hate I’m confused and my feelings are hurt