Whos wrong?

My husband has been battling COVID since last week Tuesday.

When it first started- We agreed for me not to do too much around the house as he doesnt want me to wear myself down when hes not able to help and we have two LOs.

I went all through until yesterday still doing everything but little by little- didnt ask for help, didnt complain, etc. It was fine.

These past couple of days hes been so much better. Hes been able to be out of the room for longer. Has been helping around the house and with the kids when I havent asked him.

Well yesterday- I did do more cleaning than I have been lately in one day. He watched the boys for only an hour while I cleaned the bathroom and then showered. When I was done, I put my youngest to sleep and cooked while my oldest chilled in the living room. I ate and he came out the room to eat and I went to take a nap as well.

I ended up sleeping from 5pm to about 830pm. When I woke up, apparently all three of them just woke up from a nap not too long before. Okay great! He went to sleep and I took over the boys.

Today- hes mad because of yesterday. Because I took a nap and left him with the kids and hes still not 100%. I apologized and said " Im sorry, I guess I felt that you would be okay with the boys for a couple of hours since youve been alot better these past days." Completely understood where he was coming from.

But then this motherfucker goes " Well if you wouldve paid attention. We talked about this!" And then accused me of doing it on purpose to get BACK at him for being sick and not being able to help?!! Are you fucking kidding me?!

Tbh- he always does this if he feels that I do more than him. He feels like Im "competing" with him, but when I stop doing as much as I could- he wants to throw it in my face like I dont do shit when we argue. He wants to talk about how I dont do nearly as much as him. Um motherfucker because THATS WHAT YOU WANTED! BECAUSE YOURE SO FUCKING THREATENED BY A WOMAN WHO CAN DO FOR HERSELF, YOU WANT TO FEEL LIKE I CANT.

Im just done at this point.

Update: @Amber - Im done with the situation. And I get what you mean.

@Ashley- exaaactly. Because me and my kids were sick the week before and I took care of all of us during that time. Couldnt just lay in bed esp when hes so adamant about me not interrupting his schedule during the week OR the weekend for that matter. Lmao.