Husband wants me to clean more

So me and my husband have two kids an 8 year and a 1 year old.. I’m still breastfeeding (trying to wean) we live in a 2 bedroom home that’s pretty small.. my husband loves plants they fill more than half of our living room and hallways and even

Some in our bedroom.. he gets upset if I or the kids touch them.. he has like 50 or more plants... so when I’m cleaning the living room

I have to make sure not to touch his plants or knock them over.. anyways I’m also homeschooling my 8 year old which is no big deal to my husband he says I should be able to clean 🧼 while he’s doing work which of course I try to but I’m also feeding and watching after my one year old so some days I don’t complete everything that I would like to do I literally wake up cook breakfast do school work clean dishes give the baby a nap take a break myself and then cook lunch and then clean and then when my husband comes home he wants me to make him a drink and make him something to eat depending on what time he gets home and he’s so picky about dinner that unless he tells me what he wants I can’t start cooking until he gets home because he likes his food fresh.. anyways I keep most of the house clean there’s the occasional clothes that I just washed that I don’t want to put up until the next day but for the most part I keep everything clean but the kitchen is where I struggle because I’m literally always in the kitchen cooking.. and yesterday he told me I need to clean more and I he feels like my 8 year old should help me and that he (my husband) shouldn’t have to do anything.. he always telling me how my day should go and telling me that I don’t do anything around the house and now he’s telling me that he wants me to get a job too 🤔 I’m so stressed out I’m also trying to lose weight.. and I’m just mentally drained guys.. am I wrong? Should I just try to clean more? He makes me feel like I don’t do anything right