Daddy help..

So I have two children almost 9 and 6 from a previous relationship.My boyfriend, of a year and a half, are 29 weeks along. And he is amazing with the kids! They every once in a while call him dad, they love spending time with him I think more than with me lol he’s amazing with children.

We had a party and it went late, he drank a bit more without eating- which is fine! He needs to enjoy himself- but tells me I’m not ready to be father...😳 uhm huh. I ask cause you’re scared for a full time baby and learning new routines and caring for a child that young or like you just can’t do it?? Response- idk. Then we barely talk the next day and I ask again, get the same answer, and I say are you happy (in this relationship) I get idk.. how do I keep myself together and not over stress.

Of course the relationship was the best in the beginning and you get in a routine of things it becomes “usual”. He’s been a little distant and saying I’m getting clingy-which I’m trying not to be and give him space and not lay on him on the couch all the time to cuddle etc.

Could it be nerves and him hating his job and taking it out in a different way..he tried to pretend like nothing happened the next day and asked why I was in a mood. (This was mother’s day fyi so I had a Great day being moody and upset!) Told him the truth that I wasn’t over our conversation and I can’t stand that he’s pretending we didn’t have a really harsh 2 minute talk about that. Got nothing back basically. Oh also told me he doesn’t know since he doesn’t F me enough he doesn’t know if it’s even his. That was heart breaking.