What should we do??

He wants to run off and get married, come back and tell people. I want at the very least our parents there. Because I know my mom will murder me I'm an only child and she wants to live her dream through my wedding lmfao. And his mom is already not a fan of me (I have a tattoo plus I want us to move and buy a house which to her is me taking her baby boy away)

He doesn't care what people think or say. I do - especially our parents plus I know everyone will blame me somehow and I think the respectable thing is to at least have both sets of parents.

So vote! Run off like he wants? Or have our parents there?