Ok so this is so embarrassing and I think I may the only woman on the planet with this issue.

First of all, I was with my ex husband for 13 years and this never happened! I am now with a girl for the past 3 years and it’s only happened after I was with a female. Not sure if that has anything to do with it or maybe I’m older and my body changed.

I do not use dildos, my girlfriend only used her hands.

Sometimes when we have sex, i kid you not, like crumbs come out of me, and it has no smell at all. After I get up from the bed they are all over the sheets, sometimes if even feels like sand. So freaking weird!! Anyone else????