Does he still want kids with me?
So my partner is 15 years older than me, we’ve been together for 7 years and we are engaged. We’ve been trying to conceive for about 5 years now with no luck at all. We got tested and I’m all clear and he has low sperm count. We went into high gear and did everything properly, OPKs, bbt, you name it we did it. Although the wasn’t always up for sex which was fair enough I never argued about it. So fast forward to now, we have got to this point where we don’t bother being so into it anymore. I don’t track my ovulation or anything. I have noticed that he’s up for sex more often though but we don’t talk about having kids anymore. I feel as though maybe the fact he has a low sperm count his hitting him too hard and because he’s too proud to get any help I don’t feel we will get to have kids ever. I’m not sure where to go from here, i have tried talking to him about it and he shrugs me off and changes subject.
I don’t know what to do? Please help me in anyway you can.
Also can I kindly ask that people don’t judge our age difference. I know it has something to do with it but please don’t be hateful towards it as I know some people don’t agree with it. Thank you xx
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