Do you post selfies/ mirror pics even if you’re in a relationship?

Question

I’m a makeup freak so whenever I do my makeup I’ll post pics of my eye shadow or my face. I love it! 
A while ago, my bf said that he didn’t like when I post body pics. He said girls do that for attention and disrespectful men will get the wrong idea. 
Well my bf follows pages where they have cars and sexy models showing their butt and boobs. How is that not disrespectful? I mean whatever I didn’t care
Yesterday, I posted a pic and yes I had a bit of cleavage but.....I only have family on my page. 
I woke up to a comment by my “bf” 
He literally commented “MENTION THAT YOU HAVE AIDS” 
Wtf!!! I blocked him but some family saw and texted me asking if I’m okay. I don’t have STDs .... 
I literally feel like this is all my fault and I shouldn’t have posted a pic to save my relationship 😟😟

Accepted Answer

That would be my fucking ex boyfriend immediately 🙃

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Oh my god well done for blocking him, what a horrible little boy he is. He is insecure because he knows you are way too good for him and he’s probably some ugly little boy who’s too insecure and controlling for his own good, please don’t get back with him!

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He’s disgusting & controlling, you don’t deserve that all because he’s insecure asf. I took a photo like this & posted it & my fiancé had zero issues whatsoever, he told me word for word “ I don’t care about your photos or you going out looking sexy I knew you were sexy when I got with you & people will look regardless I trust you & that’s that wear whatever I can fight anyway “ 😂😂😂😂

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No. Not because it’s disrespectful, it’s just not my thing.

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Accidentally hit the wrong one🤦🏼‍♀️ but I post body pics. Obvi not anything bad. But when I do my hubby hypes me up! I would dump this guy! Get you a man that will hype you up in the comments🥳🤪

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Yea LEAVE him. Wtf. You can post pictures of
Yourself whenever you want. Selfies..makeup..full body...all of that. It would be different if you were purposely dressing “half” naked/ or being “provocative” but even then. If you were already posting regular selfies, don’t stop because he “THINKS” it’s disrespectful..it truly is not. & He should understand that.

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I’ve posted pictures at the beach, make up selfies, selfies in crop tops, selfies in sweatpants. My husband hypes me up lol. 
Posting a selfie with some cleavage showing was not warranted for an untruthful comment from him. Women have boobs. Most women’s shirts are low cut and show cleavage 🤷🏻‍♀️ Who cares? Wear what makes you feel beautiful. Or just wear what makes you feel comfortable. He’s clearly insecure and it has absolutely nothing to do with you. 
Keep posting things that make you feel good about yourself, girl.

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Any man that believes women do anything (post pics of themselves, do makeup, shave, etc) for them is toxic lol

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I dont often post selfish because I do think so many women are seeking validation and I'm not like that. But I also don't think he has the right to tell you not to! Especially considering he ogles scantily clad women on IG. Tit for tat! Post away. And his reply, haha, out of line but I see what he's trying to do lol. Lame.

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I don’t post them. I don’t find them disrespectful, I just don’t like mirror pics and rarely take selfies anymore (#momlife). My partner wouldn’t find it disrespectful. Your boyfriend sounds controlling and toxic. Sorry you’re going through that.. I wouldn’t let him talk to/about you like that.

Do you post selfies/ mirror pics even if you’re in a relationship?

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