so my boyfriend and i had sex for the first time the other night and when he pulled out he couldn’t find the condom. he looked all over the bed and everywhere, but couldn’t find it so we went to sleep. i woke up the next morning and got in my truck to drive home, but i had a wedgie. so i was trying to pick it out and i still get wet down there even though i know i wasn’t still turned on or anything. it was so out of the ordinary. something felt off so i pulled at it and out came the condom (part of the condom was still hanging out of me), but he said he pulled out before he came. if that’s the case why was everything still so slimy?

i went ahead and took an emergency contraceptive because i didn’t wanna risk anything, we are both too young to want or have kids. has this happened to anyone else? how could it have happened? is there anything we could do to not let it happen again?

the condom was the same kind he’s been using and never had that problem, so only thing i can think is that i was too tight and the condom was pulled off of him.