Still single

I’m in my early- mid 30’s and I still haven’t been able to meet a decent man that wants to work on having a relationship. I know it’ll happen when it happens but part of me feels like something is wrong with me. My self confidence is usually fine but the harder it gets to find a man who is able to take care of his basic needs: A place of his own to stay, where he pays his own bills and a car to get him to and from work. Makes me feel like I’m the one who is asking for too much… even though I know I’m not.

I don’t care about him having a lot of money, just that he can take care of himself , isn’t an abuser, isn’t a child molester, isn’t a rapist, a murderer, a narcissist or a psychopath Lol that’s it. I, of course have more things that would attract me to a man such as his character. But dating has proven to be so difficult after coming out of an 11 year relationship with no kids. I want a family and it’s looking as if I won’t ever have one and I’m too scared to raise children on my own. Anyone else feel this way?