He wants me to have bigger boobs?
So recently this guy I’ve been friends with for a couple years decided we wanted to try dating. I already know him obviously and he’s been such a good and supportive friend to me. Recently we had a “talk” about if we should start dating and things we feel we both need from a person and such.
One of the things he asked me was if I thought my breasts would get any bigger? Like what??? He said he was very hesitant to ask me because it’s a crappy question. Me being me insisted he ask me anyway. He said it makes no difference to him anyway and that I am wonderful either way.
I immediately said NO I am 25 years old I think I’m done with puberty at this point lol. Honestly y’all I know I have small boobs but I never thought it would ever be an issue to a guy. Like I’ve never been shy about the size of my boobs.
Okay first of all, if he says so himself that it’s a crappy question, then why ask it? It obviously was worth the awkwardness to him if he brought it up. I don’t really know what to think because he seems like such a gentleman, he’s never disrespected me or treated me questionably in any way shape or form so it was weird coming from him.
If my body shape isn’t what he wants then he needs to find a different girl. Yeah I think it’s important to date someone who is your type as well and that’s what I told him.
He wasn’t disrespectful towards me, but at the same time I’m hesitant to date him now. He wants to start dating but now I don’t want to think about my breasts every-time I’m around him either??
Am I over reacting?
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