Please help. I don’t understand if I’m crazy?
My husband went to a game with his friend and we picked him up from the airport. The plan was for me to meet up with all his friends after the game and hang out (we talked about this multiple times). I said I was going to hang out at the house and to let me know when he’s done so I can meet with them (I was all dressed up). The game finishes and I don’t get a response on what the plans are and he starts sending messages avoiding my question and didn’t answer my call. I said to let me know what was happening at 11pm at night. I text him good night and he responds. I then get upset because he isn’t answering my questions before so I ask why he told me that we would be hanging out with his friends and then he doesn’t let me know? He told me not to start arguing. He said he’s waiting for a Lyft and is going to meet up with his other friends but isn’t getting a ride yet. I asked if I should leave the door unlocked because I have his keys and he says no and that he is staying at his friends house. We prepared the house today so his friend from out of town can stay over and then he gives me this information last minute and says that his phone is about to die and he will see me in the morning. I don’t know how to react to this and I feel so terrible and my stomach is turning. We have only been married a month but I can’t understand why he’s doing this to me?? Is this normal? If he didn’t want me to come I’d me more than happy to hear that! He can have a guys night! But to leave me hanging is just fucked up. We have been having arguments here and there but it’s really adding up and all so soon. I just don’t know what to do.
Edit: I do have his location and he is correct about getting a ride. I’m just upset at the fact that he could’ve easily called me and tell me what’s happening. It just really surprised me that he said he wasn’t coming home and then acted as if I was trying to fight with him. I don’t know if I can live with this anymore. I’m trying to give him chances but he always acts like a child.
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