Is this a 🚩?

I was laying in bed, reminiscing on what a piece of shit my ex was, and I was wondering if I was dumb for ever ever looking this. ..

I asked my ex if he could kiss my neck more during an intimate moment cause I like when he does that, and he was behind me and started sucking and biting the back of my neck so hard that it left bruises all over, and it genuinely hurt 😞 I looked at the back of my neck later, and the bruising was severe, as if he intentionally wanted me to give me hickeys and make it hurt. When I confronted him, he laughed it off and made it seem like it was a big deal