Am I wrong?

Last night my boyfriend and I were hanging out. We cook dinner, hung in the hammock, had sex, watched some TV and then he wanted to watch a basketball game but I wanted to do something together. The basketball game ended up being 2 hours long.  i’m really not interested in basketball so I just was on my phone. I was getting upset because I wanted to spend time with him but he was paying attention to basketball. At one point I mentioned some thing about not wanting to watch and he said “well you can go home if you want” when the game is over I packed up my stuff and I said I’m going to go home now and he walked me out. I was pretty quiet and honestly shut down. I will say it was a little awkward when I said goodbye.

So today we were supposed to go to his parents for Father’s Day, and when I texted him this afternoon he said he’s not in a very good place with me right now. I asked if I could come over he said no, I asked if I could call he said no. I did try to call him two times and he just denied it. I asked are we not going to your moms house? He said “I wanna go alone.” He then ignored me for about an hour and a half. I told him I was sorry for acting shut down and basically took the blame for whatever happened last night. He says I threw a fit and he won’t stand for me acting that way every time. And he says he likes basketball and he’s not going to change so if I don’t accept it, I’ll never be happy with him. I honestly feel like if I shut down, he always throws it back into my face and makes it my fault.

PS he did text me about 30 minutes before we were supposed to leave and said I could come but if I didn’t “throw a fit” I said no and that he could go alone also because I had already went to my parents house because it is Father’s Day and I wasn’t going to spend it alone.

Thanks if you made it to this far through! I’m just trying to figure out if I was at fault or am I being forced to think I was my fault? I don’t know ! Was I wrong with how I acted? Was he wrong for how he acted?