Not monitoring ovulation this month

I’m going into my 9th month TTC. I’ve decided to give it a break with monitoring as it’s becoming so stressful when I see that I’m ovulating and then stressing about if we will BD etc. It’s my last day of AF today and I’m becoming worried that I’m going to be subconsciously monitoring - I usually get watery CM when ovulating etc. But I really just want to relax this month! Even if we don’t BD much. Im just fed up of forcing it. Any advice? Anyone else done the same?