So obviously I got shit work through...

I really don't know why but I'm super insecure about my husband's supposed "best friends"

He's friends with this couple who when I met them, I really didn't have anything in common with. They're nice and all, but just not my kind of people.

For years now my husband's been trying to force a friendship between us all. They're good people but they're not the kind of people I trust with intimate details of my private life.

I saw a message between my husband and the woman (from the couple) before we got married that raised an eyebrow. I've talked to him about it and he said he didn't think anything was wrong about it. Ever since, I've been extremely iffy about their friendship.

To give this a bit more context, my husband (at the time boyfriend) was on a work trip while texting this woman about his "extra curricular activities" alluding to masturbating and the woman just laughed it off.

What makes me extremely uncomfortable is how open their "friendship" is when he was in a relationship with me at the time of that conversation.

Now that we've been married for over 4 years, who knows how "open" this "friendship" truly is.

Obviously I have insecurities I need to work through. Am I wrong for feeling this way?