annoying mil

my mil keeps bringing up epidural during labor and says she doesn’t want me to get it because we’re ‘women and women aren’t supposed to go through labor easily it makes you less of a women ‘ this makes me so mad but I don’t say anything back but she also wants to be in the delivery room and I know for a fact I’ll need epidural I don’t know how to tell her I’m going to get it without her getting mad 😒