Why can’t we have sex like before 🥺

So I am 35weeks pregnant today.. I remember that last time we had a satisfying sex was when I was on my 4th month.. after that the only person who wanted sex was me and never him 😢

There was a point when we started with foreplay and he was erect for a minute and the moment he sees my tummy it’s all goneee!! he started seeing videos and jerking off!

I felt neglected and bad about it so decided to talk about it to him.

He tried to calm me down and told me that it’s all so new for him, the tummy, the pregnancy.. so whenever he tries to have sex keeping in mind certain positions, it freaks him up as he feels he is hurting the baby (which we have discussed over and over again that the baby is safe and so is the sex)..

Today after months he made a move and we tried the spooning position.. initially he was erect but as he holds my big belly, he gets nervous and all the erection was gone..

I asked him if my belly was the reason or he just doesn’t feel it anymore.. he was like, I feel it’s the belly where I get conscious and loose the intensity to stay erect or cum :(

I hope after our baby, he just gets all his interest back.. what if he doesn’t? Is it possible that he would never ever feel like having good sex with me or i am thinking too much? Will our sex life be normal again? I am so worried rn!

He is just 29 and I am 27! And this is our first baby..

I hope we get our sex life back soon 🥺