am i honestly over exaggerating

say you have been with a guy for a veryyyy long time. whenever you are going to hang out with him you do the most to try and get ready for him. He doesn’t do the least to try and get ready for you. He doesn’t dress up he doesn’t even cut his hair. I have had to BEG this man to cut his hair and those are the only times he has. He hasn’t in so long because he says he just doesn’t want to. He doesn’t do anything to it, he doesn’t put anything in it he just lets it be. It’s long and just there. people have even pointed out that he won’t do the least to cut his hair to try and look decent for you. It’s become an actual issue because he just won’t do it. I am no one to tell him what to do just as he has no one to tell me what to do and he doesn’t but I find it ridiculous that he won’t even get a simple haircut or try to look nice and have good hygiene whenever on the other hand I make sure I do the most to look good for him.

Honestly, am i over exaggerating. Am i being stupid. What do y’all think.