My husband is mad at me, and I can't find any empathy for him...

So he's mad because he had to try 3 times to put our kid to bed..

Because the bed wasn't made, the blinds were up and it was too light, because the camera fell and because he bumped into the baby fence..

Why I have no empathy :

He left me for 2 days and nights to go fishing for fun (he's not even very good) while I was sick and recovering and having back problems.

I constantly bump into the fences, so I know it's just stupid and my own fault so literally nothing to be mad about... (at someone else)

I have put our baby to bed for the last 2 days in an unmade bed, with the blinds open, that is totally doable. I also manage to do that without dropping the camera on our baby's head.

So technically... All the things he's being mad at me for... Are because of his own clumsiness or stupidity...

I am currently working (night shift) so that's why he's doing it... Not because.. Idk.. He had just left me for 2 full days and 2 nights.. Oh. And did I mention that he also hadn't planned to go 2 days? He was just going the one day but ok...

Edit:

My husband usually does help quite a bit, and I do get some down time (he sometimes sleeps in the couch with the baby so I get a decent night rest) and we're actually debating on what hobby I'm going to be taking on.

So it's not all bad. Though saturdaynight he's out with his friend again 😂🤦🏻‍♀️that's 3 out of 7 nights in the week but nobody's counting, right ? 🤣

But it's fine. I'm off duty all day tomorrow 🤷🏻‍♀️ at least that was the plan 🤔