Advice/venting?

My husband and I have been struggling in our marriage for the last year. We’ve talked, tried things, etc. he just doesn’t seem to care much. Anyway, we talked 2 nights ago about some feelings I had about him not making an effort to really be with me and his son. He said he would try and all that. The next day..I had told him how much I wanted to go to the 24th of July fireworks with our two year old and how excited I was for him to finally see fireworks! My husband chose to go hang out with his friends instead of come with us. So I went with just my son. That is how a lot of things have been recently. I just don’t know what to do anymore. I know it seems like such a little thing but he knows how much it means to me to have mementoes and experiences as a family. Plus wrangling a 2 year old by yourself 3 hours past bedtime is a nightmare😂 I just kinda needed to get that out. Anyone else been through anything similar?? What did you do? Picture of my cute boy just because he’s my world🥰