Self-sabotaging

Good evening ladies!

Last night the guy I’m seeing for about four/ five months spent the night last night. which is a big deal for me as I’ve always had a big rule about people I’m seeing never spending the night. Today as I was making breakfast he started talking about how he wants to really meet my dad and he wants my dad to mentor him to be the best husband he can be for me.. is it weird that I feel myself self-sabotaging like I started stalking his ex and low- key comparing myself to her which isn’t me at all! Any advice??