My family was planning a trip to go to a city sometime in August and they said that since I’m not 21 I can’t really do anything fun like drinking so they told me after years of planning that we can’t go anymore. Almost all my family members by now are 18+ and even though we can’t legally drink doesn’t mean that we can’t go and have a good time. They have even asked one of my siblings who was 17 at the time when they were out at a party with their friends who’s are all about 17-18 if they were all drinking together and they said no then they started to make jokes about it. They have even told my sister and I that the both if us have memories together but it’s not like the other family members memories because they get drunk when they’re together.