Am I being dramatic over sushi?

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Hello all. So my cousins and I are very tight as we are all the same age. So we hang out a lot etc. Recently things have gotten weird between them and I. My cousins love sushi. Like obsessively love sushi. When they dine out it's always sushi and when they order in it's always sushi. I hate sushi and because I'm pregnant I can't have any anyway. But they never make an effort to try something I can have as well. And I'm at the point that I told them to stop asking me for sushi cuz I'm never going to come. And I find it so inconsiderate because all they ever want to eat a sushi and they invite me thinking they're being nice but I can't have it. When I brought it up with one of my cousin she's just like "I really love sushi" and "I'm like I get that but what about me?" And they make it seem like I'm being an asshole for asking to eat something different. I try to make plans for other venues and no one's interested unless it's sushi. Am I overeacting? 😅

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I think you’re being so dramatic. You can have sushi when pregnant just not the raw kind. But if you don’t wanna go then just don’t go, it’s that simple. I personally don’t like sushi that much so I won’t go and my cousin is always asking me. But I don’t get mad about it, I’ve gone once with her lol. I didn’t mind going but I haven’t gone since.

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You can simply just not go with her anymore. But there’s plenty of sushi options that pregnant woman can eat as long as it doesn’t contain the raw fish! 😊

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You can have sushi while pregnant. But I understand how you feel. Maybe invite them to another place that doesn’t have sushi. It could be annoying when they’re not meeting you in the middle at least once.

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Does the restaurant not serve other options besides sushi? Any sushi place I’ve been to has tons of other meal options on their menu

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You’re being dramatic. Sushi places often have other options other than sushi. The place we go even has chicken teriyaki. You just have to look at the menu. Egg rolls, soup, and you can have sushi as long as it isn’t raw. Tempura shrimp rolls are literally rice and fried shrimp. If you don’t want to go then don’t go.

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I can't eat at most places due to allergies so I bring my own stuff to ppls houses.
It makes me really happy if people go out of their way to accommodate me, but that's because of all the people like that who just wanna eat what they wanna eat and don't think much about me/others who don't or can't eat certain things. 
I've seen this with my grandma who vomits from cilantro but my uncle invites her over and won't stop putting it on everything.
She will NOT eat it. Lol 
Just like me with gluten, it's not worth being sick 4 days. 
A lot of people are going to be like: oh well fuck you
If you can't eat their stuff. That's how it is, and it kinda sucks, so I just eat my own things I bring. I invite people to places I actually can eat occasionally, occasionally they show up. 
I do bring your own food style meals/picnics with friends and dates. 
I don't think you are being dramatic, I think you are feeling unheard and rejected, I used to feel that way too, but don't let it ruin your social life like I did! 
People are fucking weird. Sometimes you just have to order the rice or eat a granola bar. It feels like shit at first, but eventually, you actually just want to eat your own food anyway.

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Most sushi places have other food. If you don’t want to go, just decline. If you want to go somewhere else, invite them. Don’t wait for them to invite you somewhere and then expect them to go somewhere else.

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Honestly I completely understand how you feel. Its really is inconsiderate. It's like you've done what they want, and they never so what you want. So yea I'd be upset too. Yea it's just sushi but you said u guys are a tight group, they should understand where youre coming from. Maybe try to suggest taking turns picking where to eat out? And explain to them how unfair it is that u always do what they want but they don't consider your feelings. If they don't listen then I just wouldn't go with them... But try not to stress yourself over it mama 💕

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I've never heard of a sushi place that doesnt offer other option. That's strange. I love love sushi too and everyone else in my family hates it. They get teriyaki or other options. 
Maybe tell them that you dont like sushi (and can't eat it right now anyway) and would rather find a different sushi restaurant that does offer other items on the menu. I'm sure there are some. 
I do believe you're being a little over dramatic.  I'm sure there are other things you can do with these people. Eating out all the time is expensive.  Especially going out for sushi. Consider yourself lucky. Lol

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I think in this case it's a majority rules thing but the monotony of eating the same thing would annoy me.

Am I being dramatic over sushi?

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