Advice

If your boyfriends father called you a bitch for no reason other than he thinks it’s funny, would you stay with your boyfriend?

This is me and my boyfriends biggest tiff together. We’ve talked and talked and talked about it and I just can’t stand the way his dad comes off. He can be super rude. It just stinks because if I marry into the family, his father lives close and will be like that toward my kids? This is super hard for me because my boyfriend is amazing and supportive and loving.

Update::: I should say, my boyfriend said he will talk to his dad about saying such words around me and if he is in front of my family at a family gathering or something my boyfriend said he will talk to him. He sometimes says the F slur used against gays and he says the N word as well. Which I absolutely hate. I told my boyfriend how unfunny and serious it is and he said he will tell his dad to stop.

When we were in front of my mom when he first met her he said the fag word and it’s just terrible. My mom was taken a back a little bit.