Can anybody relate? Fail # 3

Hi everyone,

I apologize in advance for this depressing post.. I am due to have my beta on Saturday, 9dp5dt and I’m 99% sure it hasn’t worked. This will be my third failed transfer, Iv had two retrieval’s the first I only had one blast, the second I got three - transferred two and froze one this was my frozen one so I’m back to the drawing board now.

I’m really feeling lost with where to go from here. Should I try again? How many times do we go through this?

I am 36 and have an 18 month old (my partners VR healed with scar tissue so we conceived my first but won’t be able to naturally again)

I didn’t want an only child, or this to be the only time I get to have a newborn, seeing them walk for the first time, all those things but I now feel like I’m putting that much energy, time and emotion into ivf that I am neglecting my son.

I don’t even really know what I’m asking, maybe just did any of you set yourselves a limit on how many try’s you would have?