Self Soothing at 4 months?

Question

FTM here….My LO had her 4 month checkup today and her pediatrician recommended we start letting baby self soothe for naps. She started fighting naps during the day by literally swinging her arms and legs and crying as you hold her and rock her. Dr says that she should start learning now to soothe herself by letting her cry for 10 mins before going in to get her. It just kills me hearing her cry cause I usually don’t let her cry. Any advice?

Answer

No no and no. 4m is too young to sleep train and definitely too young to cry it out. There is a 4m sleep regression also.

Answer

Try to put baby down when almost asleep but not asleep. Try a routine sound machine, blackout curtains, and sleep sack.

Answer

We sleep trained our little one but waited until we felt like she was ready. I don’t regret sleep training for a minute. She’s on a very distinct schedule and I know I’m going to get lots of sleep at night. 4 months would have been a bit too early for my girl. I think each baby is ready when they are ready. If you think baby is ready, then go for it. If not, wait a month or two…or three or four if you need to.

Self Soothing at 4 months?

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