What would you do? In-laws stole our money and kicked us out
UPDATE AT BOTTOM
Y’all I’m at a loss I’ll keep it short but please bare with me! I’m 8 months pregnant and we moved in with our in laws in a different state. Cross the country because they told us everything would be provided for and they loved us.
Sold and donated everything we had for a promise of a better life for our son living with them. Maxed out credit cards to move down there and we were tricked.
Everything that was promised was a lie, they treated us like dirt. Everything was our fault even when it clearly wasn’t. They could do no wrong. They beat my dog and cat when we weren’t home and now my cat is traumatized. We kept asking why we were being treated like this and they just told us “that’s the way we are, take it or leave” but we have no where else to go, we are now broke and stuck.
On august 1st, We paid them our last $300 for us to live in one of their bedrooms near the garage for the month of august. (Plus We paid them $500 for the month of July) On august 4th the mom said we had 3 days to get out unprovoked and unprompted. After taking our money. This would be the second time we have to move cross country while I’m 8 months pregnant. We asked for the money back and they told us they would pay us on Friday august 13th, which would be after she told us we had to be out. Well we took their word for it as we had no choice. Friday came and went and they haven’t paid us thru cash app or anything. Ignoring our texts and calls and not answering.
We gave up our entire lives to go down there and have nothing again, So we sold my sons crib and changing table, sold what baby clothes and diapers we could, asked everyone we knew for help and was able to have some friends let us stay on their couch for a few weeks until we can move again…
I’m so depressed y’all, as that $300 was all we had until next paycheck and because my husband had to take a week off work to move again our check is going to be only a few hundred dollars.
What would you do? Would you keep trying to get the money back from his parents? We never plan on talking to them again even if we got our money back but now my son is due in 2 months and I don’t have anything for him anymore 😭😭😭 idk where he’s gonna sleep or if we will even have a house or just a couch to sleep on when he’s born.
My doctors are watching me for preeclampsia as I have all the symptoms/signs and have had to lift many heavy things to move and pack twice in 5 weeks. I can barely walk my whole legs are so swollen.
What would you do? Please no judgement or rude comments as we were financially stable and had a house when we got pregnant.
We just got tricked.
UPDATE
We called them one last time and they actually answered the phone, they stated they were NOT giving the money back, they wouldn’t tell us why. We asked why they said they would give it back in the first place then and they said “we didn’t know we were gonna have to vacuum your room after you guys moved”
1st off, vacuuming a 10ft X 10 ft hardwood floor room shouldn’t cost $300, and second, you locked up the closet that had the vacuum and broom in it so we couldn’t access it because you were scared we were gonna do something with it when we were moving?! (Implied we were gonna steal her vacuum) we just eventually hung up and my husband and I have been up all night thinking about it.
Trying to move on and just accept it but wow is it harder than I thought! Lol pray for me haha
Update:
I want to thank every one of you for your kind encouraging words, helpful suggestions and unbeatable generosity. I’m in literal tears with everyone being so kind 💙❤️💚💜 I couldn’t ask for better people on this app to read my story 🙏🏻 y’all are amazing! Thank you 😭
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