Family’s involved 😭

Ana

Me and my bf been together about 6years. I’m 22 he’s 24. We live together in his moms house with our 2 year old (don’t judge me). Here the obvious problem, For years his family has known our business because of course we live in the same house. Someone is always in our business tryna tell us what’s best to do or just being plain messy.

I just want y’all thoughts.. Do you think a relationship could still Be fixed after family gets involved ??

I honestly feel like I should end things and start new;cause I don’t think it could, especially after the relationship being on rocks.

I feel like his family knows too much. We have no privacy & sometimes it even seems as if he doesn’t care about privacy. Too many people look up to what we got & it’s a handful of them trying to ruin it. I hate that everyone knows my business 😭.

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k.

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The best bet would be moving out. Yes I think a relationship can be worked on. But your best bet is to create physical space & emotional space from family a bit & work on it between the two of you. Having boundaries & not being around them 24/7 would likely help your relationship

k.

k. • Aug 23, 2021
You’ll never know until you really get a chance to try without interference

Be

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Have y’all thought of moving out? When my husband and I were dating I told him I refused to live with either of our parents together. I had to get a job, but I was happy!

Be

Be • Aug 23, 2021
I agree with Ashley. You’ve been together 6 years, have a kid, & live together already. Could it be you just want to be on your own?

As

Ashley • Aug 23, 2021
I mean no offense but you guys have a kid together. If he’s not the right person to be living on your own with then is he the right person to have a kid with? I don’t see how living on your own could not be the right step. You don’t want to live with his family forever do you?

An

Ana • Aug 23, 2021
Yes all the time but I want to make sure that’s the right step & he’s the right person to do that with. & we have to save for it 😭

Sh

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You should move out