My husband is OVERBEARING

My husband is overbearing and broader line disrespectful recently my

Daughter who is 8 months fell twice while in my

Care one time out the swing and the second time she just dove off the bed within 2 seconds of my back turned I am a first time mom and dealing with postpartum. On top of that he is not working so everything financially is on me. I am a YouTuber and I wanted to

Invest in a $500 camera with my

Own money and he threw a temper tantrum about how that camera is being phased out. Anytime I try to elevate mySelf like invest my money into becoming an entrepreneur he shuts it down and speaks down to me .yesterday he asked me was I slow implying I don’t pay attention to my

Daughter and that’s why she keeps falling. My self esteem is broken and I feel like I’m with someone who doesn’t support my dreams and it’s MY money im spending. Anything he does I tell him to go for it. He makes me feel like he wants to be the MOM and the Dad. I am so disgusted with him we haven’t have sex for months because I don’t feel desirable. Even the way I wear my hair is different I used to wear extensions he told me he doesn’t like extensions because it is fake. When I try to express myself to him he tells me these are issues within myself. I even wanted to invest and was willing to work another job for an enterpership opportunity he told me NO. I have fixed his credit, and gotten him health insurance when I met him he didn’t even have that. He also hates the fact that I love social media and want to make a living off YouTube, because he feels YouTube is “Not real” and superficial. My daughters name we agreed on and the next kid name I said I like to chose of course he hates that name and the answer is NO. I am sick of it and I don’t know what to do. Please be kind with advice I feel so 😞 broken.