Terrified

Hi. My hubby and I decided a while back that we don’t want to try for a baby. Careers etc moving in various directions and we feel it’s better. I turned 46 this summer and feel like I am going through peri menopause.

Last month my period was shorter than normal, this month I’m over two weeks late. Negative pregnancy tests. I also have some pain and discomfort around my left ovary and abdomen. Not sure if it’s a cyst or what. Hormonal imbalances, etc. I’ve put off going to the gyno for years due to absolutely being terrified of them. Never had a bad experience but have listened to horror stories for years. Now I’m facing that fear and going in two weeks. If anyone has any advice or words of encouragement, they are greatly appreciated. Thanks and blessings to you all.