Breakup

Me and my boyfriend. Will now ex we’re dating for 3 years going on 4 years. Last night he told me how he doesn’t feel the same and has lost feelings for me doesn’t love me. Or care for me. He told me how me feeling sad and me crying didn’t matter to him because he didn’t feel any empathy. I how ever still love him and care. And I’m not blaming him for loosing feelings. It’s just the way he expressed it. He told me he’s been feeling like this for 7 months already and never said anything about it till today. I texted both his parents and siblings telling them thank you for everything and how much I still appreciate them and care for them. It just hurts so much because during these couple months that he’s been feeling like this he would tell me how he loves me cares for me and couldn’t wait to marry me. From what he said last night was that he basically said how he told me those things because it was stuff I wanted to hear and things to make me happy. I have noticed for a while that he wasn’t trying the same as before and I told him bunch of times but I always was in denial and he always told me it was nothing he was tired busy with school etc. it just hurts really bad. And I don’t know what to do. I don’t blame him for his feelings because it’s how he feels I can’t force him to love me or care about even if I want him to feel something for me. It just hurts and it feels unreal that after all these years and months feeling like this and leading me on he tells me till now. I’m at a bad spot right now and I just need tips on how to not feel so heart broken.