I’m 17 and I’m about to turn 18 in a few months and I’m dating a guy from another state. I plan on visiting him when I turn 18 but I have a very strict mom. Anyone have any advice on how to go about that? She doesn’t let me party or visit friends but I’ll be an adult so there’s not much she can do. How do I make her as cool about it as possible? She doesn’t know about my boyfriend and I don’t want her to because it’s a fresh relationship and I know she won’t approve of it. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks.