In marriage counseling, losing hope

Laura

Husband and I have been to 3 marriage counseling sessions. We never fought before our daughter was born. She’s 9 months old now. Now we fight all the time because he loses his patience with our daughter who is quite fussy, so then I lose my patience with him. He doesn’t see that he has an anger issue. We’ve been married for 3 years but together for 8 years total. I think we are both losing hope things will ever get better between us and both starting to wonder why we got together in the first place. This definitely feels like rock bottom of our relationship.

Anyone else been here and can give words of wisdom or hope? We live long distance from all our family and friends so we are isolated and don’t get much support.

Thank you