Tw: severe medical issues and miscarriage

I had my first child at 18 in 2009, and spent 13 weeks on bedrest with him.

We lost a baby in 2018 and then got pregnant with our youngest.

My pregnancy with him was absolutely horrific. I had HG and GD with insulin. At my last appointment, after I had been telling them for weeks that something was wrong, my son failed the NST. They told me to head to the hospital because he was "better out than in at this point.

I delivered fine, baby was perfect, all was well. They told me my BP was a little high but it was normal. Fast forward to the day after I was released from the hospital. I woke up with an awful headache. I tried tylenol ibuprofen caffeine everything. Nothing helped. I went to bed that night and woke up about 6am in tears. Called my doc and went in. My blood pressure was 215/109. My brain swelled. I spent over 24hr in the ICU and then another week in the hospital.

I was diagnosed with a bladder, uterine, and rectal prolapse. So I contacted my doctor and requested a hysterectomy. I was told another baby could kill me and we were already done having kids. My doctor denied my hysterectomy and told me the best she could do was tie my tubes. Which made everything even worse.

I have an appointment on the 5th of October in a different state to talk about a hysterectomy and bladder sling. This will be my 7th doctor. I just want someone to help.

I'm on pain meds for my periods because they are so bad. I bleed an insane amount. I just want my uterus gone.

How do I get these doctors to listen to me? I guess I'm just looking for some support.