I actually hate my ex!

In fact, I detest him! He’s so controlling and always has been. Everytime he comes to see our child he spends most of that time sitting on my couch on his fucking phone! But I say nothing because it’s none of my business what he does on his phone. My daughter is going through a stage where she’s having constant tantrums and it’s draining me! Ive got her all the time and have to deal with these tantrums morning noon and night. I’m fucked!! He does have her on weekends but hasn’t for the past 2 weekends because ‘something came up’, so today when he came to see her (sit on the couch) she had a few of her tantrums and he did nothing but stay on his phone! I lost my shit because she was screaming around my ass and I was trying to do a million things all at once, (cook, tidy up, get my sons clothes ready for school tomorrow etc). I told her to go and see her father and I thought he’d deal with her but he did nothing! I had given her an ice cream about half hour before her tantrum and he actually had the fucking nerve to say “well stop giving her ice creams then” as if it’s my fault she’s kicking off! She had one ice cream and it’s the first one she’s had in weeks! She eats a healthy diet and I gave her one fucking ice cream! This is not the first time he’s told me what I should be feeding her. Keeping in mind she’s my 4th child and his first, I think after having 4 healthy children I’m pretty clued up on what to feed kids. He has also tried to tell me where I should be taking her on days out etc, when he takes her nowhere! So I blew on him and told him do not tell me what to feed her when he does nothing for her. He then left without even saying goodbye to her, and do you know what….I don’t give a shit if what I said bothered him and yes he’s her father but until he starts acting like one, he can stick his parenting advice and control up his own asshole! No dickhead will come to MY home and tell me how and what to do with MY child. 7 years I put up with his abuse and control, no more! Fuckoff back to your girlfriend and tell her what to eat 🖕🏼