Cheaters ? Do they change

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I have a bf who has cheated on me a few times we are together we have a 5 year old together, he claims he won't do anything to ruin our family but I found porn on his computer... I'm not against porn but it's skinny girls... I'm not skinny but I'm just a little bit more then the average.. And I found a web cite called arrangement finders in his junk mail... Does anyone know if guys really do change? Or do I need to move on ? In puts are more then welcome on advice thanks

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It's not common, but it does happen. I'll admit, I was the cheater. I cheated on my husband twice while we were dating. I never thought he would leave me until unexpectedly he did. I was distraught and realized how awesome he was and how awful I was. We were apart 10 months and I completely changed. I wanted him back and I wanted to be a better person. We got back together and its been 7 years and now married. I never cheated again and never had any desire to. Like it said, it doesn't always happen, but it can.

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In my opinion I would've left him after he cheated the first time. As he cheated a few times like you said, it's unacceptable! You deserve way better than him! I understand that you have children together but you shouldn't have to go through that. I would say leave him, you will feel much better when your free and then he will see what he's missing! Much love for you girl at this time ❤️ no one  should be in your situation, I'm here if you need to talk 💕💫

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I don't think cheaters ever change.

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Short answer? No, they don't change. And even if they did, would you really want to be with someone for the rest of your life if they've already cheated on you personally? It's one thing if people have cheated in the past and turned over a new leaf, never betraying you and your relationship. But he's already demonstrated to you that he doesn't care that much about your feelings. Stick around if you want, but don't expect things to change, because you've already shown him that you're willing to stick it out with him even when he fucks up, and for a lot of guys that's basically permission to do it again.

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I don't think he'll change. He'll change for a little while to keep you happy once he's done that and you feel safe about you're relationship, he'll do it again. I'm sorry

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If he's cheated on you a few times, he's not going to change. One time, I feel that they can change. But more than that, and they know they can get away with it.

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Guys changr when they want to. But i think since hes done it over and over again and is looking for "arrangements" he will never stop cheating on you.

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Once a cheater always a cheater

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From experience I've had an ex tell me he'll change and he honestly just didn't. As mentioned below, unfortunately they'll change when they want to

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they can. anyonecan but simply sayin it doesn't work. he needs to prove it. my SO cheated and we went to counseling and it helped. if he refuses counseling LEAVE

Cheaters ? Do they change

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