Does he seem abusive or controlling?

It was October 6 I met him at a restaurant and my sister and I needed a way to get home so he asked if we needed a ride, my sister got both of us in the car with him and I gave him my number (I know hella stupid and unsafe) we met up a day later and he ate me out (again I know I shouldn’t have done that but I was in the mood) then he started messaging me this, this is a few messages he’s sent me. I started to question does this seem abusive? He’s also told me in the car he got 3 girls (a little one, a teenager and an 18 year old.) He also said he’s a father then he told me he got 2 boys which sounded off to me because he couldn’t give me a straight answer. I’m 19 and he’s 32. He’s also told me that he doesn’t have a wife or gf.