Using condoms ?

Question

So I am newly single. I was in a long relationship.   The last couple of months I’ve been dating. 
I have slept with a couple guys. I asked every single one to wear a condom. Cause I want to be safe.  But they all ask in the middle of sex or for “round 2 “ if they can not wear a condom. 
I know it feels better for guys without one … but I also want to be safe. And it seems like they all get weirded out when I ask them to wear one. Like no other woman has asked them to wear a condom before. Lol 
What do you guys think about this? Any advice ??

Answer

Personally, if I asked a man to wear a condom and then he asked if he could take it off or not wear one, we would be done. Major mood killer. 
You obviously want him to wear one, since you asked. 🙄

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If a guy says no other girl asks him to wear a condom then that to me is alarm bell's that he is more likely to have an std. And why would they think you would want them to wear one for round 1 and not round 2?? Do they think because they wore one the 1st time your still safe from pregnancy and std's?!?!

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If a guy says I can’t come with a condom on etc or whatever other excuse oh well you can come in my mouth. My body my choice what goes in it. Or thought shit. I’m not on birth control. I don’t know you or who you’ve been with. Sorry my life and health have value. You can be inconvenienced for a bit. It won’t kill you. If they don’t like it then they don’t get to have sex with you. Men have brainwashed women into this don’t you trust me or whatever else. Men want zero responsibility. It’s your problem. Birth control. You get the coil they complain it’s like having sex with a Brillo pad. They don’t want to be inconvenienced and that is the bottom line. Your body, you can say then look sorry we aren’t having sex then. You don’t respect my wishes then It’s not happening.

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If I asked a man to wear a condom, for both our safety and to avoid pregnancy, and they asked me if they could just not wear one because it "felt better for them" I'd get up and leave. Its about respect for my body, your body, and for both of our health and safety. Know what feels even better than not wearing a condom, avoiding STDs and pregnancy.

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The simple answer would be stuck to your gut. Say you only consider that in a monogamous relationship if you want

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