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Hey there.......  So  me and  other half planing to have a baby , and we are both very happy , But i just wanted to know everyone pregnancy experience, ?????specially birth ????? If you had epidural ??? What was it like did it hurt , and last but not least how was the after Birth ? Did you need to get stiches ? How was that ? Will my part go back to being tight and nice , thank you .........