Should I contact him and see what’s going on?

This might sound dumb but I’m having major anxiety due to the fact this has been my only relationship. We were together for 7 years. (We live apart from eachother due to personal reasons)

We actually had plans to move in December 2022.

Anyways. A month ago. Yes a month ago, my bf and I got into an argument. Long story short, he got mad because I started following a lot of fitness trainers on Instagram. He found out because I started sharing them on my story and putting things like “goals” or “one day” I look up to their dedication a lot. My bf got so upset he blocked me. He told me he didn’t want to see that. I told him I was sorry. I only shared maybe like 3 pics. He asked why I’m into that and I said because I hope one day my body looks like that. He got more offended and said he didn’t want to talk. So I thought maybe I was in the wrong for focusing on “beauty and body”

I gave him space but he went a full week without contacting me. He called me on day 10. I didn’t pick up. I texted him “hey I’m driving but I’ll answer on my way home”

I was hoping we can talk and see what bothers him. We never did he just responded with “sure you’re probably fucking your personal trainer”

Okay first of all I don’t have a personal trainer lol. I workout on my own. I told him he was crazy. I told him I never bitch about who he follows on Instagram.

So I’ve been dealing with these random outbursts for months. He is avoidant all the time just disappears during an argument. I’ve mentioned this to my mom to get help. I’m so lost. My mom said it sounds like he’s using substances like alcohol or something else. I thought the best thing to do was to confront him.

I did. I asked if he’s using substances because ignoring me for weeks is not normal. A couple should communicate and fix the issues. He got so mad and he showed his entire family of what I was accusing him. I never was accusatory. I asked I felt like none of this behavior was normal. He acts out of proportion.

He said he was just mad for a bit. “A bit?” So he ignores me for days because hes mad for a bit?? I told him I’d take that as a break up or he’s talking to someone else. He said that’s not true. He never broke up with me. But that’s how I felt

If I can’t ask then how would I know? So he send me a screenshot back of one of his family members saying “she’s a real crazy bitch” after me asking if he using substances….

I told him why was he telling me what his family thinks. He blocked me. It’s been a month. He unblocked me and sees my Instagram stories. Idk if I should reach out and ask what’s going on?