Would you forgive him?

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I met this boy at work and we both had feelings for each other but never confessed, he made out with one of my friends and they both lied to me and pretended it didn’t happen when they kissed in front of everyone else. I still like him even though this happened months ago and every time I see him he comes up to me and tries to conversate. It just hurt because he lied and I liked him and when I found out and even now he just makes it clear he likes me

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If he truly liked you I don’t think he would’ve kissed your friend and lied about it to you

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You sound really young. There's literally nothing to forgive him for because he did nothing wrong. You weren't in a relationship.

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If you guys never told each other, he has no responsibility telling you anything he does…

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If you weren't in a relationship, what is there to forgive? I'm not understanding. It was silly of them to lie about it, but even there, they didn't owe you or anyone else an explanation. No relationship boundaries were violated.

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My heart breaks for you that you don’t know this boy is scum to make out/kiss your friend and you still want to be with him 😔.

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I get it but you guys aren’t boyfriend and girlfriend and nothings established yet so he could do what he pleases even if he hurts your feelings. I’ll admit that’s fucked up and such a low blow but like I said he’s single.

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He wasn’t that into you if he kissed your friend. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Sounds like you decided that for yourself. What’s there to forgive? You weren’t dating, he didn’t even tell you he liked you, and nothing came of anything. Move on.

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My best friend and ex boyfriend, Andy, started dating another friend of mine, Alycia. They told a mutual friend and begged her to not tell me. They were dating for 3 or so weeks before they told me anything. I was so angry. And then they had the audacity to ask me to be a buffer for when he met her parents. I did more so because I wanted to watch everything fall apart. It didn’t. They didn’t last long at all and Andy and I stayed friends until he moved away. Alycia and I are semi friends just because we both have kids now.

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He makes it clear how? He's actually said the words I like you, I like you more than a friend, I want to date you, etc?

Would you forgive him?

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