Sick of hearing..

Anyone else sick of hearing “all while I pay for this house”… Lately, I have been feeling so run down between working, picking up the kids, making meals and keeping this house in order plus my side job.. I explain to my husband maybe we can split up somethings so I have less stress about it all.. such as him ordering his own meds, doing his own laundry. Maybe he puts all the kids clothes away if I wash them.. he was fine with it one night when talking about it, but then I still have to ask him to do it 🤯

Then tonight, he put the kids tonight and said “thanks for helping”. I said sorry I needed a minute as I have done this this and this since 5pm when I get home with the kids and I had to still ask you to put the laundry away.. “Yeah all while I pay for this and the bills ect” 😡

Isn’t a household BOTH personals responsibilities? Am I wrong for asking him to help out too. So stressed!