Sleep overs!

My LO is 2 and she’s been at her grandmothers since the late afternoon and I just got a message she wants to sleepover. I’m a little sad, I miss my baby already. She’s had sleepovers at her grandmas house before but she hasn’t wanted one for over 2 months. Says she wants to stay with mom and dad. I get anxious so I’d prefer for her to sleep at home. I have made sure to teach her she can’t bathe anywhere else but at home or only by granny alone.

I am a little paranoid because I’ve had family members being sexually abused by other family members. My mother also kept me very close and sleep overs were rare for me.

Am I being too much? Is this a normal thing?

- edit- not the same person who posted about not leaving Child alone with grandpa.