Onlyfans account okay for your boyfriend?

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I just found out my kids father that I have been with 12 years has an onlyfans account that he pays to see other woman naked pictures and videos. And not just one he has paid over $100 (I stopped counting at that point) on this website on watching woman.  I feel disgusted. Am I not enough? Is he bored of me? Or am I overthinking this??! I feel like now maybe it’s time to end things. Am i jumping the gun too quick? Help!!!

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No its not ok for someone I’m seeing to be paying someone else for sexual gratification 
That’s cheating

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I personally would not be ok if my husband had that. That would be a deal breaker for me personally.

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I know a lot of people say it's just like watching porn but you can communicate with the people on onlyfans not to mention he's paying a lot of money for nudes. Most porn is free and you can see naked women free all day also. I wouldn't be okay with it.

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That’s not okay , in my opinion that’s considered cheating!

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That is money he could be spending on his family.

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Its porn... If you're not ok with that, talk to him... After 12 years I personally wouldn't just break up...tall with him and see what he has to say for himself... Also you are enough! He should not make you question that, however man are super oblivious so he might just not realise he's hurting you... Sending virtual hugs!

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Everyone and every relationship is different, people have different boundaries and what they are okay with. 
For me, I have no issue with porn or anything, but actually paying to see these girls and potentially be speaking with them on there would upset me.

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I personally don’t care. OnlyFans is more ethical than the free sites. Yes you can communicate with them, but you can on pornhub and stuff too. I’d rather him pay for porn he knows both participants are consenting and if age than watch free porn where he doesn’t know if they’re consenting on a site that profits off of nonconsensual and child pornography. I told him I don’t care about OnlyFans as long as he’s not talking to them and he doesn’t subscribe to anyone we know.
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First, if my man was paying for provocative videos of other women, 🚩. 
Second, if my man was only my baby daddy and not my husband after 12 years...bigger 🚩

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You need to set your own boundaries based off what you're comfortable with.
For example. I really don't care if my boyfriend looks at photos/videos of other women even if they're sending them in real time to him so long as 1) they're FOR SURE above the age of 18 and 2) he doesn't pay money for them.
I think it's honestly a waste of money and he could get them for free anywhere. Use Google, man.
If ya'll have the extra money and it doesn't bother you, then let him. If it bothers you and/or you are a bit tight financially then talk to him about it.

Onlyfans account okay for your boyfriend?

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