Am I tripping?

Hey guys. I’m not usually on here but I feel like my friends hold things back from me instead of being honest and I just need honesty here.

Am I wrong for not wanting to be used by someone? It’s been 6 months, technically 2 years, we were together before, then we broke up for 4 months. Got back in touch and been “talking” since May this year.

I say “talking” because we do everything under the sun together except we are “single.” Anyway one time I told him he’s being insecure because he said “you must be on a double date” after I told him what I was out doing. I was only out with one person. A woman. We went for drinks. We get off the phone and he texts “you’re not my bitch for me to be insecure.” And ever since then I’ve been super uninterested and don’t want to deal with him and he tells me I’m wrong because he says “I’m committed to only you, so it doesn’t matter.” Yet we still single. Oh and the fact that he didn’t mean what he said about saying that I’m not his bitch. I don’t want to talk to him anymore then I asked what are we building and he said verbatim over the phone “we not building nothing, so we don’t have nothing to talk about, let’s just be done.” Hung up on me, and now he’s trying to talk to me. I just want to get out this cycle. I’m tired of this back and forth shit.