men and porn?? opinions ?? see what i’m trying to say ? (w/o offending anybody)

i don’t get why you guys are shocked and hurt when you “constantly” find out about porn then try to force this man to stop.. don’t expect him to- they grow up watching it and everything. they don’t stop- they just know how to hide it better instead of you bashing them for it. 🤔****if he’s mature and trustworthy and does it in moderation where it doesn’t even affect y’all’s sex life, then what’s the problem??**** it’s a fantasy world for them.. doesn’t mean they’re gonna go find the ppl in the videos ??? they could love you and your body to death.. but the main reason is they do it for the visualization of sex.. just like women who watch it, or whatever other reason ppl watch it for.. **if you’re feeling insecure, then why not take the steps necessary for you to feel more confident in yourself ?? cause eye candy is everywhere- it ain’t going nowhere and just because somebody gets into a relationship, doesn’t mean they go blind.. you see them literally any and everywhere but if they’re mature and really only have eyes for you- then they don’t give those ppl the time of day at all.. nobody really wants to be with ppl who look like eye candy cause they bring nothing but trouble..

oh definitely, nobody is telling you that you can’t feel how you feel.. cause i know everybody has their reasons.. i’m just like when they’re just pushing it on him because you don’t want him to just because you feel bad about yourself ??

also of course im not talking about the people who have been cheated on, etc..🤦🏽‍♂️