Am I over reacting/ being too much?

I’ve seen several similar stories on this topic and I can’t believe this is now me. I feel so hurt.

I really appreciate when people apologize when they hurt you or mess up. I believe in second chances when people recognize their errors and do apologize and work on changing so this is why I kept holding on to this relationship.

Like 3 weeks ago, my boyfriend and I had a huge fight. I know this is going to sound absurd but he didn’t reach out for 11 days. I didn’t reach out either because his last text was “I don’t want to talk at all”

It was the worst 11 days of my life. I decided to unfriend him on all socials but not completely block. I needed to do that to help me move on. 11 days later he called me and asked me why I unfriended him and removed our pics together. I told him I took it as a break up. He told me he would call me to explain. I was waiting on a call and he never did.

I waited. I even asked “so are you going to ignore me another 11 days?” I was frustrated. He responded the next day “ I was working goshhhh” I felt like I was being annoying or passive aggressive. He ignored me another 6 days.

Yesterday he sent me a good morning text but I didn’t respond. Honestly I needed space and just today he texted me again calling me with my first name. This might sound dumb but he never calls me by my first name

I just liked his message and when he saw I wasn’t texting back he asked me if I had ate. Also sorry for typos.

Then he called me “babe”

I just liked his last text message which he said “looks good” he got upset and just replied “ok “

I told him how he hasn’t even apologized or given me an explanation of what he did. He doesn’t talk to me for days then calls me babe randomly. I requested him earlier since he said he didn’t like I unfriended him ….I havent been able to talk and have a serious conversation. He doesn’t want to touch that topic and just comes to me like nothing … if I do touch that subject he ignores me again because to him I’m “bitching” again…

He got mad again and just hasn’t responded to me

Am I wrong for feeling this way? Like how do you come back after almost 2 weeks then call me by my first name then calling me babe??

I thought we were broken up. Shouldn’t I deserve an explanation

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